These scribbles, my kaleidoscope of thought, shall reveal the way I perceive the world.
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Winter is Over

Winter is Over

June 9, 2026

A blood pressure cuff, a worn folder with someone else's name on it, and the walks to the pharmacy through the freezing air. Winter is over, thankfully.

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The Lock

The Lock

May 31, 2026

An empty wardrobe, a rescued pendulum clock, and a lingering scent in the kitchen. Closing a door, forcing the key a little, and leaving a piece of life behind.

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My City

My City

May 22, 2026

I spent years trying to return to my city, only to understand that what I was looking for had disappeared long before I did.

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The Red Envelope

The Red Envelope

May 15, 2026

A red envelope reopened after many years. A few pages, too many questions.

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The Last Shift

The Last Shift

May 6, 2026

A forgotten cotton swab in an old cabinet brings back the memory of a terrifying afternoon on the road, the indifference of crowds, and the quiet dignity of a stranger's last day at work.

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Anatoly's Mother

Anatoly's Mother

April 22, 2026

Anatoly's mother waits for her son's messages with the quiet, stubborn hope only a mother can have. In the space between one phone call and the next, war enters the house through silences, small gestures, and the unbearable weight of what everyone already knows.

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I'm Still Guybrush

I'm Still Guybrush

April 14, 2026

A jolt before dawn, a terminal waiting in the dark, and the Monkey Island soundtrack pulling me back to a warm summer evening in 1991. The screen has always been my safe harbour - it just took me thirty years to understand why.

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Two Seashells

Two Seashells

April 11, 2026

A chance encounter with Ivan Graziani in the mid-nineties, a nod I didn't deserve, and the years it took to understand what he already knew about our sea and the places we leave behind.

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The Usual, Thanks

The Usual, Thanks

March 27, 2026

A snowy drive to a meeting that turned out to have nothing to do with IT - and a pizzaiolo who understood politics better than the politicians.

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The Scent of Denial

The Scent of Denial

March 21, 2026

An anonymous white bottle in a 2001 photo brings back the sharp smell of adolescence - of treatments, hidden shame, and the night I looked in the mirror and finally saw what everyone else already had.

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The Scent of the City

The Scent of the City

March 13, 2026

A morning walk through Ferrara becomes a journey through scent and memory - from London coffee to a grandmother's market, from ancient hospital corridors to the unmistakable perfume of fresh bread.

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The Scent of Freedom

The Scent of Freedom

March 2, 2026

A rubber keychain shaped like a foot, a Piaggio Zip, and the sweet, terrifying taste of independence.

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179 Euros

179 Euros

February 22, 2026

A 179 Euro purchase in 2010 seemed like a splurge. 16 years later, that appliance has survived moves, earthquakes, and snowstorms, becoming a silent witness to my life's changes.

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The Doctor's Eyes

The Doctor's Eyes

February 16, 2026

Curious minds never grow old. Their fear isn't aging, but running out of time to learn.

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Up, 16 Years Later

Up, 16 Years Later

February 14, 2026

A new pair of earbuds triggers a sudden journey back 16 years.

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Arrivals and Departures

Arrivals and Departures

February 8, 2026

A sleepless night, a thought about the day I arrived and the day I'll leave.

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The Weight of a Millimeter

The Weight of a Millimeter

February 2, 2026

A distracted driver, a motorcycle crash, and the terrifying wait to see if I would ever walk again.

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The Scent of a Photo

The Scent of a Photo

January 28, 2026

My smartphone just showed me a photo, taken exactly four years ago today. I published it on the Fediverse back then, showing nothing but enthusiasm for the great takeout food we had ordered. The truth was different.

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The Magpie

The Magpie

January 18, 2026

A bird’s noise is enough to bring back memories of months spent half-trapped because of a magpie.

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The Mechanically Perfect Lie

The Mechanically Perfect Lie

January 11, 2026

A loud noise outside my window brings back a memory from 2002. The night I truly could have died.

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The Virtue of Finished Things

The Virtue of Finished Things

January 6, 2026

An email asking if my software was abandoned made me realize how the ideal of completeness has disappeared from our lives. In an era of mandatory updates and disposable goods, I reflect on the value of boring software - the kind that is finished, reliable, and simply does its job.

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The Universes Behind the Lights

The Universes Behind the Lights

January 1, 2026

A small domestic crime, a cold night walk, and the mind starts to wander...

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Looking Back at 2025, Looking Forward to 2026

Looking Back at 2025, Looking Forward to 2026

December 31, 2025

A peculiar year is coming to a close. Between world-class conferences and rediscovered friendships, here is my personal review of 2025.

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Between Then and Now

Between Then and Now

December 29, 2025

Sometimes I need a refuge. A refuge far away in space and time, remembering those who are no longer here.

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The Two-Pound Lifeboat

The Two-Pound Lifeboat

December 27, 2025

A passport photo slips from an old book on a rainy Christmas afternoon. The memory of a week stranded abroad with nothing but a two-pound paperback for company.

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The Gray Teacher

The Gray Teacher

December 23, 2025

On a gray winter morning, memory drifts back to an old classroom, a stern teacher, and the thin line between mist and humidity.

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What If I Were Twenty Again? Thoughts on My 46th Birthday

What If I Were Twenty Again? Thoughts on My 46th Birthday

December 19, 2025

Turning 46 triggers a question: would I go back to being twenty?

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Just an Old Sign

Just an Old Sign

December 16, 2025

The waiting room was full, but a forgotten sign made me feel suddenly alone. Revisiting a moment when life happened all at once, leaving marks that took time to heal.

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The Masks of Hypocrisy

The Masks of Hypocrisy

December 10, 2025

A rejected Christmas decoration becomes the catalyst for a reflection on the dark side of small community dynamics.

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The Chair

The Chair

November 24, 2025

A familiar road, a moment of pause. I found myself looking at a place that once meant purpose and community. It’s a quiet reflection on what remains when people move on and what stays behind in silence.

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The Lady of the Clock

The Lady of the Clock

November 16, 2025

The search for an antique clock turns into an encounter with its elderly owner and a promise to become the custodian of a century of memories. A personal reflection on legacy, loss, and the stories objects carry.

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This Isn't a Battle

This Isn't a Battle

November 14, 2025

After reading a post describing the FreeBSD community as 'toxic', I share a different perspective. This isn't a battle. It's a reflection on coexistence, the original Open Source spirit, and the quiet richness of taking a different path.

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The Rubble of Memory

The Rubble of Memory

October 27, 2025

A fleeting glimpse of a car on the highway sparks a journey back in time, a reflection on youth, lost dreams, and the powerful, deceptive nature of memory.

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When Bigger Stops Being Better

When Bigger Stops Being Better

October 10, 2025

A follow-up on why I didn't name names, why the world isn't the United States, and why small businesses remain the backbone of genuine service.

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9 September 1943

9 September 1943

August 20, 2025

On 9th September 1943, my grandparents faced fear, hope, and loss in the midst of war. This is their story, told through the memories of that day.

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I will be flowers

I will be flowers

August 12, 2025

A late-night awakening turns from fear of death to a profound sense of peace, finding beauty in becoming part of nature.

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Make Your Own Kind of Music

Make Your Own Kind of Music

August 4, 2025

The sound of classic rock from a passing bike on a summer evening, and the unexpected bridge it creates between two generations. A quiet reflection on the courage to choose your own music, and your own path.

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I Just Want to Go Back Home

I Just Want to Go Back Home

July 30, 2025

A single thought that deafened the noise of a new city and a new life. This is the story of a paralyzing fear, of porticoes that felt like cages, and the silent nod that changed everything. It's about finding your way back home, even when you're far away from it.

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A Circle of Strangers

A Circle of Strangers

July 22, 2025

On a warm Italian night, my wife and I stopped to watch the dancing. When the music cut out and a crisis unfolded, I witnessed a crowd of strangers offer a silent, profound lesson in human decency and protection.

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The Last Match I Remember

The Last Match I Remember

July 16, 2025

Not every match is about winning. Sometimes, it's about who we are when the game gets serious. I was never truly competitive, but tennis taught me about respect, disappointment, and the quiet moments that shape us

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The Broken Gramophone and the Stolen Land

The Broken Gramophone and the Stolen Land

July 11, 2025

The story of a broken gramophone and a piece of stolen land. A personal account of my family's legacy, caught between fascist violence and the calculated greed of those who wore the banner of anti-fascism for personal gain.

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So, where are you going on vacation this year?

So, where are you going on vacation this year?

July 7, 2025

Why this simple question reveals the biggest generational conflict of our time.

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Your Exit Strategy Dream Is My Customer Nightmare

Your Exit Strategy Dream Is My Customer Nightmare

July 4, 2025

I found a promising tool and reached out to the founder, ready to invest and partner up. I was met with a wall of silence. It crystallized a feeling I've had for a while: for many, the exit strategy dream is a nightmare for customers who actually care.

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Nomadic Soul, Habit-Loving Heart

Nomadic Soul, Habit-Loving Heart

July 3, 2025

A personal reflection on balancing a love for travel and exploration with the deep-seated comfort and reassurance found in everyday habits and rituals.

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Taking a Semi-Truck to Buy Salad: My Manifesto for Simple Computing

Taking a Semi-Truck to Buy Salad: My Manifesto for Simple Computing

June 23, 2025

A manifesto for simple computing. While other fields embraced minimalism, tech became bloated. Why do we use complex, oversized systems for simple jobs? It's like taking a semi-truck to buy salad. This post explores a return to efficient, low-cost, and minimalist computing.

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From Collaborators to Consumers: Have We Killed the Soul of Open Source?

From Collaborators to Consumers: Have We Killed the Soul of Open Source?

June 19, 2025

The Open Source community is becoming increasingly polarized. From the distro wars to Wayland vs. X11, the spirit of collaboration is fading. Are we shifting from collaborators to consumers, and what can we do to build bridges instead of walls?

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Where Have You Been for the Last 20 Years?

Where Have You Been for the Last 20 Years?

June 17, 2025

A personal journey from 20 years of self-doubt to discovering the welcoming BSD community at BSDCan. Sometimes courage comes later in life.

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MacBook Pro vs Car: Why Small Businesses Still Win

MacBook Pro vs Car: Why Small Businesses Still Win

June 9, 2025

A personal reflection on how small businesses — from roofing repairs to tech support — often deliver greater value, care, and integrity than large corporations. Real people, real work, real trust.

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When We Become Cheerleaders for Our Own Demise

When We Become Cheerleaders for Our Own Demise

June 5, 2025

Why do we become cheerleaders for our own demise? A look at "vibe coding", professional Stockholm syndrome, and our tendency to defend the very tools and systems that threaten our skills and autonomy.

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The Azores High and the Symphony of Pistons

The Azores High and the Symphony of Pistons

June 1, 2025

A personal reflection on seeking tranquility outside the city, only to discover a curious modern habit: the relentless use of cars for even the shortest distances. Why do we trade peace for the car keys, even in 'quiet' havens?

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My Way

My Way

May 30, 2025

A personal reflection, set to My Way, on the inner journey towards authenticity and the quiet strength found in choosing one's own path amidst expectations

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Forty

Forty

May 24, 2025

A poignant reflection on a sister's 40th birthday, filled with vivid childhood memories, shared joys, and an enduring, heartfelt connection.

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Reconnecting After a Decade: A Pizza, Laughter, and a Shared, Shaking Memory

Reconnecting After a Decade: A Pizza, Laughter, and a Shared, Shaking Memory

May 20, 2025

A heartwarming reunion with old friends after ten years triggers vivid memories of a terrifying earthquake and the incredible solidarity shown during that crisis.

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It’s Hard to Find Answers in a World Full of Noise

It’s Hard to Find Answers in a World Full of Noise

May 19, 2025

The challenge of sifting through online noise for genuine information, prompted by a frustrating monitor purchase, and a reflection on the internet's evolution away from user empowerment.

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Apple Devices and The Reliability Question: A 20+ Year User Retrospective (Updated)

Apple Devices and The Reliability Question: A 20+ Year User Retrospective (Updated)

May 14, 2025

An updated personal retrospective from 2015, detailing over two decades of experiences (2001-2025) with Apple product reliability, from iMacs and iBooks to iPhones and MacBooks, highlighting recurring issues despite premium pricing.

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Being a Bad Salesperson, By Choice

Being a Bad Salesperson, By Choice

May 2, 2025

The conflict between 'good' sales tactics (pushing known platforms) and being a 'bad salesperson' who values understanding, control, and real client needs.

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Always Available, They Said. My Offline Morning at the Hospital Says Otherwise

Always Available, They Said. My Offline Morning at the Hospital Says Otherwise

May 1, 2025

Relying solely on the always-on cloud? A hospital outage proves why essential systems, especially in healthcare, must have local resilience.

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That Night in Athens

That Night in Athens

April 25, 2025

A memory from a 1998 school trip to Athens, and a night that unexpectedly defined a sense of self and freedom.

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The Irony of Modernity: Design vs Technology

The Irony of Modernity: Design vs Technology

April 23, 2025

A satirical look at how modernity means simplicity in design but complexity in tech.

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No Masks, Just Us

No Masks, Just Us

April 21, 2025

A personal reflection on quiet moments, NetBSD, and the idea of celebration beyond social expectations.

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Tiny Tool, Small Lesson

Tiny Tool, Small Lesson

April 19, 2025

A simple screwdriver, a lost item, and a small moment that reminded me why my wife's advice is usually spot on.

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Why I'm Expanding My Blogging Presence

Why I'm Expanding My Blogging Presence

April 17, 2025

I'm reviving my personal blog to share thoughts, stories, and reflections that last—beyond the fleeting nature of social media. Technical posts will stay on IT Notes; everything else finds a home here.

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That all started with the Big Bang

That all started with the Big Bang

April 14, 2025

Some places stay with us long after we've left. This is about one of them — and the strange way a sitcom, a lightbulb, and an old memory are still all connected.

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The Web We Love

The Web We Love

February 17, 2024

The sense of community and willingness to help each other out is what makes the web such an incredible resource.

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End the Waste: A Call for the Right to Update Abandoned Devices

End the Waste: A Call for the Right to Update Abandoned Devices

February 15, 2024

It's time to reconsider our relationship with technology, to envision a future where devices are not just disposable commodities but lasting tools that evolve with us.

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Who is the real Owner of your Data?

Who is the real Owner of your Data?

February 12, 2024

The question of who is the real owner of our data is not just rhetorical but an alarm bell for our digital autonomy. It's time to reflect on the long-term implications of our technological choices and to consider concrete steps to reassert control over our data.

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25 Years Later

25 Years Later

September 25, 2023

After 25 years, I reconnected with a friend through a 1998 email, highlighting the lasting power of open standards. This personal journey underscores the risk of relying on fleeting proprietary tech. In our digital era, choosing lasting platforms is more vital than ever.

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We Need to Return to Healthier Social Networks

We Need to Return to Healthier Social Networks

September 5, 2023

The Fediverse's growth highlights a desire for purer social networks. Early platforms prioritized genuine interaction, but current algorithms often amplify negativity for profit. The Fediverse offers a healthier alternative.

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The Demand for Online at All Costs

The Demand for Online at All Costs

May 22, 2023

Today there's the unrealistic expectation of 24/7 online services. But an occasional downtime is normal and preferable to security breaches

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No, This Country Can't Work (Like This)

No, This Country Can't Work (Like This)

May 4, 2023

Italy is a state silenced by its own bureaucracy. The promised simplifications almost always end up creating more bureaucracy, worsening the situation.

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The Year of Linux/FreeBSD/OpenBSD/NetBSD on Desktops May Never Come. But We've Done Even Better

The Year of Linux/FreeBSD/OpenBSD/NetBSD on Desktops May Never Come. But We've Done Even Better

April 19, 2023

The year of Linux/*BSDs on desktops may never arrive, but their impact on tech is undeniable. They've found success in diverse devices & platforms and they're in our pockets.

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People, not numbers

People, not numbers

April 6, 2023

Social media are tools for communication between people; we need to remember to treat each other as such.

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The urgency of transitioning to IPV6

The urgency of transitioning to IPV6

April 2, 2023

The adoption of IPv6 is no longer a matter of choice. With the scarcity of IPv4 addresses and the new challenges posed by the countless connected devices, there is an urgent need to accelerate the transition to a better and more efficient system in the form of IPv6.

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The abundance of hardware resources: a curse for software optimization?

The abundance of hardware resources: a curse for software optimization?

March 29, 2023

Advancements in hardware have led to a decline in software optimization. To reverse this trend, developers need to prioritize optimization for a sustainable future.

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No, in IT 'it must be done this way' shouldn't exist

No, in IT 'it must be done this way' shouldn't exist

March 23, 2023

Adopting an open and flexible approach in computing, exploring different solutions to specific problems, and embracing technological diversity and innovation should be the foundation of modern computing.

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Old blog article: 20 years of Computing

Old blog article: 20 years of Computing

March 20, 2023

I received a Commodore 64 in 1987 and it ignited my passion for computing. Here's how it went, then. Article from 2007

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A new Journey

A new Journey

March 18, 2023

Let's start with a new blog!

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